In Today’s world everyone is always worrying about themselves no matter what the situation is they just don’t care ..you see I wanted to see just how many people out there that would read this article and actually help this family…So I want to let you all know about a situation that is going on with an individual that I Know about .You see I have written a few articles about her family situations we received wonderful comments about the articles .so I thought I would do a story about her ..There is a woman,In Our Community, Who was diagnosis with pancreas cancer…She became really sick and couldn’t work and She also had a lot going on within her family ..You see she takes care of her 61 yr old mentally ill brother in-law and at the time her father in-law..Who also had cancer ..She took care of him while she was going through the same things he was but somehow she managed to take care of him, and very well… She let him die at home with Love , dignity and respect of his family .( The youngest son and his wife).Instead of a nursing home or hospice center …He Passed away at home ( Surprisingly his youngest son was the one child who loved his father so much and helped his wife take care of his father ( The one son who the family thought was no good and wanted the father to throw away but the father could not and would not because he was a good God loving and God fairing man who loved all of his sons and wanted the best from them all ).. and he died at home in his own bed with the youngest son and his wife who loved him and really cared for him.at his side…, So then when the father in-law died she gave him the best funeral and last goodbye that anyone could …she was going through chemo and she had gotten really sick and blew up from the steroids she had to take to help her manage the sickness from the chemo drugs she also had many health issues that she was dealing with but manage to do so so when the father in law died …She was still taking care of her brother in-law and her husband ..Then her own mother had came to live with them ( which she wasn’t the nicest person or the easiest person to live with )..so for 2 1/2 years she took care of the brother in-law and her own mother ..then the mother got really sick and was diagnosis terminal , So then she calls the family ( which is of different fathers and caused a lot of problems within the family due to fact that most of them did not get along )so anyways she calls them to let them know the mother was dying and would Not be here much longer …and she asks the brother about an air conditioner for the mother to be comfortable and all he said was he had no money ( which she knew was a lie but she let it go ) Well anyways she went out and got the air conditioner that the mother needed to be comfortable ..Now the woman had hospice come into the home,.. She had received a hospital bed , a wheel chair and side table for her to use ..The hospice People who came into the home were very nice to them and help the woman make her mother last dying days somewhat comfortable ….Her family was so Dysfunctional and because she didn’t have a close relationship with her half brothers and sisters because they were older than her and came from another father with that in itself made this family dysfunctional and in chaos of handling things.. Not One of them would help their Own Mother ( Except this woman ,Because of her Respect for Her Catholic Religion and The bible where it says to of honor Thy mother and Thy father ..So she did it ,Alone ) Because they all had bad experiences with the mother not being a loving and Caring woman herself that these other children of hers were not shown love so they could not give love Because they did not know what Love was…Well anyways this woman did honor her mother and took very good care of her mother… Then the mother dies and the real drama begins.The mother had said to the daughter who took care of her that if her family couldn’t come see her when she was a live,Then don’t come see her in her death ..Also that if they couldn’t do for her when she was a live then don’t do for her in her death so the daughter who took care of her , had her brought to a funeral home where the mother wanted to be cremated so it was all set until one of the two siblings ( Who claimed to be religious -who were the holly jumpers, as she called them ) put their 2 cents into it so the mother could not be cremated if all the children would not sign the paperwork for the funeral home to do so and honor the mother’s last wish , So the mother sat in a funeral home freezer waiting to be created…The only two of the other children who came to see the mother within the last 3 days of her life and did nothing for the mother ..( while the sister who took care of the mother ,changing her washing her up daily- giving bed baths , giving the medication to make her comfortable and feed her and did everything for the mother … the two treated the death as something to deal with and move on ..They had treated their ( Half) sister like shit in her own house and acted like they were better then her because they go to church…Well a Holly person would Not Treat someone like crap or make them feel less than themselves …Then Because the sister who came to see the mother before she died to sooth her on con’science.. went back home ( she was from another state ..However between the two siblings who did come to say goodbye to their mother now have created a huge problem and the mother was just sitting in a draw Until this woman was able to get her mother cremated ..So , Now this woman is in another crisis ,You see she is on a limited income due to her own medical health issues and expenses She is now having problems being able to stay in her family home, Due to being on a limited income she can’t afford the bills to stay in the home she took care of everyone else., So We are asking Everyone to Please reach into your pockets and help us help this woman stay in her home ..It is a dam shame that this woman Has helped her family and many Others over the years, Only to need help herself and Now has no one to help..Please Let’s show her people care and that people will do for someone just because They can ..So We will try to raise as much as possible for the woman and her family so that she may stay in her home .So we will be setting up a donation for her to do so…. 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