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In Today’s world Many People may surprise you …. Especially those closest to you. In Life We start out at an early age …. We are taught to Love,Care, Share , Respect, to be Truthful and to be a good person . Then as We Grow up and go through school, We Become young adults and go out into the real world to live on those very things we have learnt throughout Our Childhood and Life . As we grow up we learn to be responsible and take responsibility for Our own actions and or lack of actions .We go through college and then when we finally find that someone special we end up getting married to Or In today’s time.. People will get a boyfriend or girlfriend and that persons family becomes Your family .Well as anyone can tell You…Your In-laws can be eventful and very trying at times . There is always that one or two people in every family that think they are better than you or the sibling that You are married to… They think they are the the ones who will be in charge of the so called family When the in-law parent(s) die . Now many people don’t have problems within the family of in-laws .Because most the time the get married move away from the family and have a family of their own . They only see the in-laws when there is a family gathering ,Or a special function which they all try to make the best of it..Now then their are family members who stay within the family home to help out with the parents . Now the family that resides within the home seem to become close and the have a wonderful relationship . Now the in-laws are all ok with you living in their parents home doing all the cleaning and laundry , cooking and taking care of their family member But there is always that one or two members of the family of in-laws who causes many problems Because they chose not to help the aging parent (s) but think they are entitled to everything of that in-law parent Has When they are gone . Now I know In-laws can be trying at times and it becomes a situation But If You didn’t have a close relationship with your in-law parent (s) and You did Nothing to help them have a better end of life Then What The Hell Makes You Think you are Entitled to anything from that in-law Parent when they have died ? Now I know People can and are very greedy as I have been seeing many Many Baby boomers who Think this is the way of life and family..But what is Right is right? Just Because you have been an in-law longer doesn’t mean you are entitle to anything . Let Alone be in charge of their estate when they are gone .. I have been hearing A lot of People in their 40-50’s About their parents dying and their older siblings thinking they are entitled to everything and that they are in charge . Well If your parent wanted it that way they would have put it in writing with an attorney .Right?. Many Parents at the end of life cycle tend to want to give everything to the ones they were closes to and Who took care of them in their dying days and that actually took care of them, Loved them and their last wishes ……The baby boomer generation seems to make things about Them. They Tend to think what They can get when One dies ? Because they are married to the oldest child they should be in charge and should get the most if not everything.. ( It seems many of these siblings wives have the problem with the rest of the family has they think they are entitled to Everything Because they are the oldest … When they haven’t done a Dam thing to deserve it ..( Many think because they made Thanksgiving and maybe Christmas dinners over the years that they are and should have everything the In-law died and left behind …..)Now a days .. I Will say if you are an elderly parent and you are getting up in age and If You have anything of value, A Home a car, etc…and you want to decide who gets what when you die? I would suggest you go to an attorney and have it written up as a true will or If money is an issue ( Because things are tight )Sit down write out your last wishes on a piece of paper have it Notarized and make sure you go to the city hall in the city and state in which You live in …. It will cost about $58.00 to do so and make it apart of the public record at the city hall records department .. So That way when you die your last wishes will be honor without all the fighting and drama of the family who will not get what they wanted or expected .. As This is being seen more and more these days and it just is Not right .. I find it a Dam shame that an older sibling would and even could fight over something they are not entitled to or that they just should Not have ……All Over Greed ..Now many of people live way beyond their means and they think when any family member ( regardless if it is your parents or an in-law Parent (s)… Now I know many siblings get along and can work out this type of situation Out and Keep the family together as it is what the parents who have died would have wanted and that is commendable ..I applaud You ……….. Not to mention …Your Parents who are Now gone and will be looking down on You And Know You all got along and that you all dealt with the lost and that you all did what the parent would have wanted …. I know many people especially the baby boomer generation have gone a muck over greed and think that because they are the oldest child living and because they have many bills due to living way beyond their means and now expect their dead parent to pay off their bills .I have seen and heard first hand… How this really can ruin a family………The really Sad part of it all is …If You Ask any baby Boomer what are they giving their own children and grandchildren When they die? many will say Nothing ….That they are spending their child(ren)s Inheritance Now as their retirement .. How hypercritical is that? ………..Wow….Right ?… Well I hope you and your family will take care of your aging and dying parents..That You will do the right thing….For them…To Know That they have died with their family and To let them know That you are there for them When they need you the most and Not just want to leave them in a hospital or nursing home .. …Because When Your Dying parent is at the end of their Life Cycle… They want to Know that their family will come together and keep the family going Together ….and that You all worked it out and were able to help each other work things out and Deal with the death ..When and Elderly parents dies they want to know …..That when they do pass away that greed will Not consume you ( Their Children )…. As It has to many ….. God Bless ….
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