Caring For Our Dying Family… Part 2…….

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In Today’s world It is Very difficult to Have to Care For Our Aging Family.. Our Parents are getting Older and Need Our Help to live.. We Love Our Family and Want the Best for Them ..Whether it is Just Having them Move into Our home Or to Actually care for them on a Daily Basis . As Adult children …It is Our Responsiblity to care for Our Elderly Family members ..Such as Our Mom and Dads and In some cases Other family members.. Who Have No One to Care for Them Or To Look Out for Their well Beings .. Because They Can Not care for Themselves ,Now I know Everyone thinks… Well Let’s Put them In Nursing Home Or an Assisted Living … Well, In Some Cases  It Maybe The Only Option One May Have … However Not Everyone Has the Money and Means To Do So…As Nursing Homes and Assisted Living centers all Across Our country Are extremely Exspensive and Let’s Face It No One  is Going To care For Our family Members As We Can and Will ….Because We Love them and Want the best care for them … So Let’s talk about Our Elderly Family .. Now Nursing Homes are So Exspensive and Do Not Have The Staff That They Really Need To Actualy care for the patients Wants and Needs… They Have …Let Alone Adding More to their facility…. The Staff that they Do Have Are Not Doing the Work They really should be doing as many of their staff are  lazy and under paid .. After All these facilities are there to make Money and a Profit ..Then You Have The Asisted Living Facilities Who make Huge Profits and Usually Cost Outrageous Fees for the smallest things .. ….Just Housing alone in Assisted Living Starts At $50,000.00 A  Year … ((Which is Billed at $4 or $5000.00 a month )And That is one that is Usually at the bottom of the list…  In Each State …Others Run into Alot More  Money and Can Drain and Collaspe Your Saving Very Quickly .. …Also What Most These Places Do Not and Will Not Tell You Is that Medicare Is Billed and  is Paying For The Nursing Part of the Care Your Loved One Gets from These Places….(Which are very good to begin with and the level of care in  Low …As Anyone Who Has A Family Member In One of Theses Facilites Will and Can Tell You Is That These Facilies Bill For Everything and Anything …That They can Get Away With ..  MEDICARE Pays Hundred of Millions of Dollars Each Year To Nursing Homes and Assisted Living Facilities ….All Across Our Country )So For the most Part Your Paying for the Housing and Meals.. Everything else Is Considered Extra and  You Are Billed  For Those Extras at A Inflated Rate ( Such As Asprin is Billed Like $5.00 a Pill Which We All Know You can  Buy A whole dam Bottle for $3 to $5 .00 depending on where you buy them  and Laundry is also not included and is billed to the family )Also When You or Your Loved One Moves Into  One Of These Places , For The Most Patients Share a Room with Another Person Unless You Pay For  A Private Room… You Will Be Living with Another Person …You Do Not Know and May Not Like Or Want to be Live  With .. Some Places May try to See if they Can Move (you) The patient  around to be compatible with each other However Many will say you have to deal with it or Pay for a private room…  So Before You Think About putting Your Loved One ( Regardless If it is your mother or father or grandparent , Or Another Family Member) Into Any Of these Place( Facilities )Please  Remember One Thing… No One Is going to care for Your Loved One Like You Can and Will.. There is Alot of Help Out there For Familes Who Decide to Keep their aging Family ( and even Menatlly and Phyiscally ill Children ) At Home With Their Family … There are A Lot of Agencies Out there Who Are there to help You with All your needs to do so .. Such as In Home Health Agencies.. Like for Nursing aides Also Known As CNA’s ,Home health aides and even Nurses. There are at Home Agenicies Who Draw Blood for Patients Who are shut in or can’t  get to a lab for their bloodwork so it is done  In their homes .. There is so much Help Out there to Help Us Keep Our Elderly aging family at Home and There are agencies who will also help in caring for familiy Members with disablities ( Such as Mental or phyiscal Disabilites such as  CP- Cerebral  palsy MS, And Many other diseases ..)and Our aging Familiy .. Now Many People say That They Can Not deal with Taking care of family members.. Who Need Their Help and Care on a Daily Basis .. I know I have Seen It first Hand …Where someone Does Not Want to do It .. For No Other Reason But not wanting to do it ………..And That Is Sad .. Our Parents and Grandparents Took care of us as Children and Young adults….That It is Our Turn To Care for them and Yet Many Many People Just do Not Want to do it .( Sorry to Say It But it is The truth be Known It is A Lot of The Baby Boomers Generation Who DO Not Want to Care for their Own Parents ( Regardless if it is their parents or their In-law Parents They Just Feel It Is Not Their Responsibilty to do so ..When It Is…………)Many People Just Do Not Want to Have the Responsiblity Or As they put it The   Burden Of Taking Care Of Our Elderly Parents And Other Family Members  It is a Dam Shame that Anyone Would Rather Put A Elderly Parent Into a Nursing Home or Leave Them In A Hospital To Die, Rather  Then Taking Care Of them ..Themselves …Most people think they can’t handle taking care of their family member, When They Can ,Considering that There is So ,So  Much Help Out there…. It is Just That Most People  Do Not know where to Begin to look for it … .. So Let’s start at The Beginning .. #1.. Take Your Elderly Parent /Grandparent to their Doctors for a visit …Sit down and discuss with their doctor Tell The Dr That You Need help with caring for them .. Most The time the doctor has to fill out some paperwork so the insurance ( medicare and other Insurance companies will pay for care at Home ..Because it is alot Les money to do so ..)So The Health  Insurance  Companies can Pay for the in Home Care .. #2 You Have to  find an Agency  To Get  Someone into Your home to Help you with their care .. ( Like Bathing, dressing, cooking meals for them , Making sure they take their medications .. and Other Things like doing Their Laundry and dishes and other house hold things that need to be done for them Daily ..Also If You Need Them To Sit with them As A companion and Other Things you may need to do to  keep them at Home ..)#3 You Can have In Home Blood Drawing for patients with Diabeties , liver disease , Kidney functions and Many Other tests that are needed usually On a monthly basis .. Which can be done in the Home ..A Dr Just Has to write the orders for them . #4 There are Many Adult Daycares That Are Popping up All Across America to Help with Watching Our Elderly and Our Adult Disabled Family Members   So If you work It Allows You A Place For Your Elderly or disabled Family Member to go to While You Are Working So They Can Be Taken care of and Watched Over Or If You Need A Break Or Have Errands to do You May be able to do So With Having them At an Adult daycare Program …Our Parents and Grandparents Were Always There for us …………So Don’t You Think We Should Be there For Them ?  …………..Why Wouldn’t You Want to Care for Them At Their Most Vulnerable Time in Their Lives? I know I have Taken Care of my Mentally ill Brother inlaw and My Father Law and My Own Mother  .. To Give them Love and care Is something that Touches your heart and Your  life and theirs .. It Makes You feel Like You Gave Something back and That it Matter To Them That You Were There to do so.. That You were There When They Needed You the most .For You Show them Love , Care and Concern and That  you were Greatful to be able to care for them at The end of Their  life cycle ..#5 Then There is In Home Hospice Care Which is Really Wonderful . They Are In Home VNA Care ….These Nurses are Outstanding .. They Go Above and Beyond for Your  Dieing Family Memeber and They help you to deal with it ..They Make You Help Your Dying family Member Comfortable… To Ease Their pain and Manage it with Medications to help them be Comfortable and Know that You Their Daughter or son ( Or whatever Your Relationship is with The family member you are caring for ..)Are There for them Till The End Of Their Life….. When God Calls them Home …Hospice Has In Home Religious Services  ( For Whatever your religion )Like Last Rights and  Helping Them Deal With Their Dying .. Yes it is Trying at Times and It is Something You will Never be Ready For  …But Some How Some Way You Do  Deal with it …. With the Help of others .. Having Your loved Ones In Your Home and Being Able to Care for Them and That Your There for them Means More to them… Then You Could ever Know .. Not to mention you will feel better knowing you were there for them ….To Let Them Live their Final Days With Love , Respect and Dignity… Means More to them than anything .. There is also Hospice Places If it gets to much for you tohandel you Can Have them Admitted for their last few days ..But You would want to be there for them .. So You Would want to keep them in their own beds in your home ot help them Pass with you by their side …Believe Me I know .. Those Are the Last Days Of their lives and I chose to Be Apart of them and to be there with them as They Go Home to God ( While My Other Family Members Are Out On Vacations and doing whatever they want and Not caring for them .. Shame on Them) .. As One will Not be able to get that time back as they are gone from Our world….. Till We Meet Again In Heaven …Now I am Not Saying  You Have to Have them In Your Home to Dye … But You Should be Greatful For the Life They Gave You to Give them Sometime with You in the End of their Life Cycle … To Show Them You Love Them And Care Enough to Have Them In Your Home and In Your Life ..That You Cared Enough to Care for them When They Needed You The Most … That  Is Something You will Treasure for the Rest Of Your Life ….Especially When They are Gone From Our World…So I Hope That In Reading This Article You Will Actually Learn From It .. ……………….I Hope It will Touch Your Heart and Get You to Think about Caring For and Of Your Elderly Parents, Grandparents and Other Family Members Who Need Your Time , Patience ,Love and care … That You Will think about bringing them Home with You at Your home Instead of putting them in a Home Regardless of the type of home… ( Either Assisted living or nursing home )….Because Always Remember No One Is  Going To Love and care For Your Family Memeber As You Would and Could… …There is Always Help Out there for You to do so .. You Just Have to Know where To Look .. I Hope you Will Find It in Your Heart and Take Care of Your Family .. As it Is Our Responsiblity To do so …With That I Bid You Good Day …God Bless..

I Hope this is helpful….Good Luck with Your Loved One …

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