When your born into a family , you are taught from a very early age that you can trust your brothers and sisters …..Until One day your Parents get old and can not take care of themselves and rely on their children to take care of them..Until something happens and most of the siblings move away or Just don’t want to do what is need to be done to care for their own parent ..It seems like THE OLDEST are the worst because they come from the time in life of free love and was against war .and somehow lost the responsibility of having to take care of their parent is no longer their responsibility ..They become so out of touch with the deed at hand of caring for a parent ..Or they are married to someone who thinks it is not their responsibility ..which it should go to the oldest first born child and then down the line from there to take care of their aging parent or family member …Well It makes it more difficult to take care of a parent who is not so nice and causes habit in your home.. But somehow , someway you manage just..Because it is the right thing to do ..That you really want to honor your god and do the right thing as the bible tells us that we honor thy mother and father ..It does Not say if your mother or father are mean, rotten or or very ill not to do so ..so you do not once, But twice only to be treated as you don’t matter .. You are just the lacky who did what was needed and then thrown aside .Then Comes the last wishes which you want to honor what your parent stated so and one or two of your siblings put a stop to because they want to be in charge of it and then leaves your parent in a cold dark freezer draw in a funeral home because of one of the other oldest sibling doesn’t want to Sign a paper to honor their parents last wish, So you have to go to court to be able to do so..Then so that the other siblings can sooth their own soul and mind to take care of the last thing of taking care of the estate so it would benefit them ..you are now out of what was promised and then you get to be feeling that you did the right thing for the right reasons and then were out what was promised to you because they played the probate to do so …now you think about it and it leaves everlasting Impressions of siblings you never really knew anyways and you decide to walk away and move on with your life ….Well I wrote this as a reminder to you all if you come from a family of different parents or even the same get things in writing and have the parent write it out and fill out the funeral /cremation paperwork so that it will not be respected by the law and courts .. make your parents do their will or last wishes and have it all on paper to avoid any problems at the time of death and o that things will be done when they pass on remember just because you do the right thing for the right reasons doesn’t mean everyone else will …death does rotten things to people especially families and money is the root of all evil.PEOPLE TODAY WILL DO ANYTHING FOR A DOLLAR EVEN YOUR SIBLINGS,AND OTHER FAMILY MEMBERS … SOMETIMES THEY ARE THE WORST ONES…WELL I HOPE THIS WILL HELP YOU DECIDE TO DO THE RIGHT THING BY CARING FOR YOUR FAMILY MEMBER AND GETTING ALL THE PAPERWORK TOGETHER AND IN ORDER SO THAT YOUR PARENTS/ FAMILY MEMBER’S LAST WISHES WILL BE HONORED AFTER DEATH..
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