In Today’s world of families ……I wanted to talk about family…. As any family can be difficult or a strange at times. People lose track or just outright walk away from their family for whatever the reason.Then something happens, Usually something that’s so serious Such as a death, to bring them all together …. Then there is the get together to try to deal with whatever is going on .A Hospitalization, a family member Dying ,Or The death itself .Something that requires a family to come together..Which is very hard at times because sometimes the bad blood between family members can make it extremely hard ….But Regardless on How One feels about the individual who is dying or died ( Mother, Father,Grandparent ) or the family member they just don’t like for whatever the reason etc….They should go see that person ,If For Nothing more than to say goodbye or just to be there for the family member they are close to ,Who is going through the ordeal of dying family member Or for whatever reason maybe .A death is about as serious as one can get ..Now this would be hard on any family Especially,A close knit one… But when it comes to a family Who have been drawn apart and or are from different fathers ( families) Or Whatever the reason…It makes it more difficult ….and harder to deal with ..Now When It is you who is caring for the dying family member and you want them to die with dignity ,love and care of a family member.It makes it harder ..Then you sit there thinking what the Heck am I doing ?You see the fact that it takes someone dying or something so serious ,Whatever the reason to bring a family together is a dam shame! People don’t realize that they have gone on with their lives , Without the family they knew growing up with. They created another family all of it’s own ( like having children or getting married or something .In which you become part of another family to to have a family of your own ..)Something to be a part of …. Then you have given your life to a man and his family or to your children and put a life of your own together.Then something happens and you are put back into the mix of a family who you no longer know.( Which is difficult in itself). You are put together to deal with whatever happened like a parent or family member dying .Then you sit and realized why it was you walked away from your own family because it is so bad and full of bad memories and you just don’t have it in You to be something you were decades ago ( Not that you would want to, But you do it for Your dying loved one. Only to have one of them think he is superior and the boss of things. When it is you who is in charge .So You opened up your home to them to see their dying loved one , mind you they haven’t seen in months if not years ….Just to be treated like shit in your own home ….Well first of all you who are doing the care for the dying one is the one person who is doing or have done the most wonderful thing by giving that dying family member the love , the dignity and the care to die with family instead of a nursing home or hospice center ,Which If You are a godly person, ,You do for the love of god for the sake of the bible as it says Honor thy mother and thy father ( And it doesn’t say if your close or if your better or whatever you think is the reason for not doing the caring is But To love and honor thy mother and father period. ) as we have said before We are not Bible thumpers, But I am sure everyone has a faith, a higher power or something they believe in… Remember that the love one you are caring for needs your Love, Patience , Kindness and Attention for they will be around Not much longer .And If they die they will not be there any longer….Make sure you can live with the decisions You make in the last days, hours and minutes of the love one who is dying life , For They may be gone But never forgotten .Remember the care , love , kindness and attention you give to someone as if you would want it done to and for You in your dying days as we all will have a cross to bear I only hope this articles can enrich you my follower/reader to follow your heart and be the person you can be by loving unconditionally to the end …. Then When Your Loved One dies You will know you did everything Humanly possible .That You Gave your dying family member The Dignity, The Respect and The Decency Of The Care,The Love the Respect to let them die …with the family they knew ………God Bless …..
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