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Our Elders…… Doing What Is Right For Them ?

In today’s world, As We Get older and look at life and the people around us and Our Families it seems like Our Elderly Family members ( Father , Mother , Aunts and Uncles )Who are now in their 80’s and 90’s and are now at their end of Their  life cycle …It is very difficult to see that they have given their children  grandchildren and in some cases great grandchildren and even great great grandchildren So Much  … Who  Now are putting these elders in nursing homes and assisted living homes…..Instead of stepping up to the plate to care for their Parents and grandparents … As history has done from the beginning of time..Where family Meant Everything… As Our Parents  have cared for Us from birth, It is Now their children and grandchildrens responsiblity to care for them ( Their elderly parents ) These people who are now 50’s and 60’s something,Should be caring for their  elderly and aging parents and grandparents.. It seems that this generation of 50- and 60 somethings are more reluctant to care for for their own mother and father. They feel it is not their responsiblity .. Which it  absolutely is … However when the parents and grandparents get to old to care for themselves their selfish and greedy children put them in nursing homes and asisted living facilities so they do not have the burden of caring for the person(s) responsible for giving them life..This generation is Known as the babyboomer generation who have forgotten what their parent( s) have done for them.. As they are and always have been concerned for and about money ..The babyboomer generation has been so set on the money issue that  they think about How much money they will get when the parent and/or  grandparent dies… Especially when they get sick and terminally ill, They want to get the cheapest cost of living without having to do the work themselves , So that When The elderly parent dies they can have more money in their pockets.. I have noticed this first hand in alot of families where their are several children the oldest seems to think they are in charge and whatever they says goes ..Which is Not always True ..Well Now a days It seems that the babyboomers are doing whatever they can to get their hands on their dying parents money at any cost.They feel they are entitled to everything,and if there are sibblings, Then  it will be whatever they say goes .Well just because your a child and just because you think Your entilted to something doesn’t mean you will get it .. take a minute think about what you did to earn it?  Or if you really are entitled to it? Think about what you did to earn it ?. Did you take care of the dying parent or grandparent ?Think about if you were there for your parent or grandparent and then think is this right ? Because it is not …Take the time to know your family ( parents or grandparents and take the time to do something regularly with them. Get to know  How they feel .. What they want done.. when they do pass on and are no longer with you …You will have known You done the right thing for the right reason..Then and only then you can say you did what they wanted and that you actually earned  what they have given / left  you .. By showing love and gratitude and spending the time to care for them and being around them  and being with them and doing what was needed for them .. You will then know the true act of kindness and love  from  Your Heart ..And the true value of family and What it was meant to be apart of something bigger not just because Your related ..Take time to care , to share to love and to let your family know You Do .. Then when they are gone you will have Everlasting memories of them and that your family with come together and be stronger and if you are left something then it will mean even more .. ( it won’t just be money you Wanted and were able to take Just Because you were related ..) So if your a babyboomer and Your reading this article take the time to really try to understand it and understand family should be  everything ..That the time and things you do with your Loved ones should mean more then the money you get or the money you wanted  from them when they die . In life we are start off as chidren and grow into adults and Our mothers and fathers have raised us to be viable members of society and that in life we grow up  we go to school ,get a job ,get married, raise our children and to teach them the cycle of life .To teach our children that we raised them and that when the time comes, They should step up to the plate to care for you ,Their parents..Not throw them in nursing homes or assisted living..Yes it takes alot to care for an aging family member , especially one who is sick But remember that when you were sick your mother took care of you .. It has been This way since beginning of time .. Until the BabyBoomers decided they did not want to to it and felt they were not responsible for the care of their dying parents. this is Wrong on So So So many levels and it Needs to Stop ..Hello All you Babyboomers who think your parents owe you something when They  die ….Hello People Your parents Do Not Owe You Anything .. Remember they Gave you life and they made your life so easy by teaching you the simple things in life and put you through school to get where you are today ..So Don’t You Think ,You Owe Them Something?Don’t Your Think That Your Parent(s) Deserve better the likes of a nursing home or Assisted living ?Don’t you think they deserve your love and care and to be able to die with alittle bit of Love, The Care The Concern and Dignity  to Die with their Loves Ones?and  In their Own Home ? Well I know first hand I have been taking care of people my whole life..Firrst my 3 children and my husband..Then my grandchildren , Then my brother In-law and my father in law( God bless their souls) at the same time then Dad died and I had my mother move in to care for her becasue no one else would ( Which is a dam shame because I am the youngest child of 11 children ) and then Mom died and then My Brother inlaw died within Months of each other which was extrememly hard because He was a lovely man ( who had surgery and died from it .) now it is My husband and I …. So I personally can say it is Our responsibility as children of Our aging elderly end of life cycle parent and family members to let them Die at home with family who loves and cares for them and not throw them away like garbage..Our Parents  are the reason for Our being..They gave you life..  So Now it is Your time to give them their last ride through life with Dignity,Love and Concern ..Something No Nursing Home Or Assisted Living facility Will ever give ( Because lets face it they are not as well equiped as one would think and the care is not there your just a room  number to them ..a means to a paycheck . I know I have been there and went through some rotten experiences with nurses aides and nurses themselves Just Are Not What they use to be .. Besides No One is going to care for your loved ones ( Your parents and family members The way you WOuld and could .. ) .. So Taking care of your elderly parent is Your responsibity… If it gets to be to much you can have hospice into your home to  help with the dying process and to help you bear the burden of the dying of your loved one ..Hospice is a wonderful thing , It is a Dam Shame that the regular care of life for our eldelry is not as good as hospice is .Because Believe Me they go  Way beyond the Normal care for a Dying person – They are always a call away if you really need them and they are always around through the end of life for your parent or loved one ..I give Hospice An A++++++.I have had them here for my mom and the nurse was extremely helpful and always here to help and answered any and all my questions .. It really helps you to deal with the lost knowing you were there for them in the end and that you gave them a death of honor with dignity and love and no one can take that away from you .If more people would step up to do the right thing for their parents / grandparents they would see it is a wonderful feeling .I know I have done it Not Once ,Not twice, But Three Times ..And I would do it again.. I know I have made them know and feel that I loved them and I was Happy to care for them in such a time …It Made them at Peace ..

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